On Not Being an Archery Target
“I liked that Buddhist idea of the second arrow,” Brittany
added. “The first arrow is the pain. The
second arrow is the pain we cause ourselves reacting to the first arrow.”
“I liked it too, the first time I read about it,” I said. “It
dovetails with a lot of cognitive therapy. Change the way you think and you’ll
dodge that second arrow.”
“I’m so bad about catching the second one,” Bethany said with a
deep sigh. “When I caught my boyfriend cheating, I tortured myself. I was
convinced nobody had ever felt pain like that. I told myself I’d never love
again. I would die alone.”
“Lesson learned?” I asked.
“I’ll never do that to myself again.”
Today I will dodge that second arrow.
Burnout Training ©2018 by Ken Montrose
Burnout Training is a work of fiction. Any similarity between the
characters and anyone you might know is purely coincidental.
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