Someone posted online that he’d fallen off the wagon. I was glad to see all the support he got. I
was also happy nobody had said ‘what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.’
Just surviving a binge doesn’t seem to make people stronger.
A strong recovery comes from pushing a little harder to catch up to the wagon, doing
more to stay sober. Recovery comes from
being smarter, figuring out why you fell off the wagon in the first place, and
making changes.
I thought about a woman I knew who loved to say what didn’t kill her made her stronger. After every bad relationship, with every bad boy she encountered, she’d claim she was stronger for the experience.
After a particularly
nasty breakup, a friend told her, “You’re not stronger, you’re just a human
speed bump, getting run over again and again.”
This made me think
what doesn’t kill may make me a little stronger, but hopefully makes me a lot
smarter. Otherwise, I’m just a human
speedbump.
Today I won’t be a human speedbump.
Fawlty Showers 2
is a work of fiction. Any similarity between the characters and anyone you
might know is purely coincidental.
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